Folmsbee’s A New Kind of Youth Ministry Part 2

February 19, 2008

Here are some thoughts on chapter 1. I enjoyed and found it thought provoking. It resonated with me as a reflection of a lot of what I’ve been thinking about regarding youth ministry and evangelism in general.

Chris starts by sharing an experience with an event driven form of evangelism (I think I know which “festival” this was Chris). Of course this is so prevalent in youth ministry. Event driven evangelism is a place where “the Gospel” is proclaimed. It is usually one image of the Gospel and therefore speaks in a limited way. He then goes on to talk about friendship evangelism. This type of evangelism is where students are encouraged to sit with their friends and either “share Christ” or invite them to an event where the people that know evangelism can actually do the evangelism. I have two thoughts I’d like to add about friendship evangelism in addition to Chris’ critique of creating an unhealthy sense of what it means to evangelize.

1) Chap Clark has written a wonderful book about a study he completed regarding adolescent development. Hurt (without going into the study) talks about a phenomenon called “clustering” that should be added to the list of critiques of such types of evangelism. “Clustering” is the acknowledgment that people, adolescents more so, spend time with people who are like themselves because it is safe. Now I won’t go further into this but if evangelism is restricted to one’s cluster then God’s grace is less often being shared with people unlike us. Clustering assumes many of our students friends are Christians in confession. This is my experience. Of course they have non-Christian friends as many of us do but they are not “safe” to share Jesus’ way with.

2) I forgot my second point. :)

After jumping into the topic of “bridge building,” which he describes as a means of connecting to separate points that are disconnected, he explains why this analogy of evangelism creates problems in the way he feels it should happen. Chris asks “So what does it reveal when the church needs to build a bridge to the culture?” and responds with, “It reveals a disconnection…” He says that a new kind of youth ministry is committed to compassion. He uses an analogy that involves getting into a canoe and rowing with them in relationship. He calls it “life-dynamic evangelism.”

(Now Chris (assuming you look at this though this is unlikely) I love to poke fun at people. Since we don’t know each other I’m giving you this explanation so you don’t think I’m a total jerk.)

Those of us in youth ministry love to create awesome sounding names for things. It is like we’re making a name for a new concert tour. I think it is hilarious. I called something “Momentum” once and my old youth group name was, “G2R,” Genesis 2 Revelation. Chris has come up with “Life-Dynamic Evangelism!” This is a most “Extreeeemeee Youth Ministry” form of evangelism. Just kidding. The name works well for what Chris wants to convey so jibes aside I understood it as practicing compassion in our lives.

Life-dynamic evangelism is simply “sharing the truths of God in the context of our everyday lives.” This creates a type of evangelism that does not focus on the “us and them” relationship or dangling a carrot in front of someone saying, “I’ve got heaven yes I do. I’ve got heaven how about you?” It is simply being people and living life together. A missionary I met from Russian said the biggest problem he had with American Christians that came over to help and serve was that they came to solve problems and fix the people or situation rather than joining with those people in walking through life. Compassion. Life-dynamic Evangelism. Chris adds 10 points that are also helpful in breaking this down.

The only critique, and I guess it is a big one, I have from the chapter is some language he used near the end of the chapter that I’m very sensitive to. He says, “Your recultured evangelism would be driven by the goal of connecting students with God through Jesus, not packing a calendar full of events for the purpose of appearing active.” What is my critique about this? Well I think it takes us back to an unequal power relationship and becomes proselytizing when we have a mindset of having a goal. We assume the place of having motive behind our relationship with a person when we have a goal. People then revert back to numbers, or those that need to be saved. They cease to become people when we have a goal. I would propose that we work towards building a mindset, an atmosphere in our ministries, a culture that does not have a goal of evangelism but has a desire to share life with each other as Chris said earlier in the chapter. An example would be I really want someone to go to a party with me so I ask them if they want to join me. If they say “no” then that is fine though I might experience rejection or disappointment. If they say “yes” then that is awesome. We get to share life together and make some memories. I don’t have a goal in that kind of relationship. I let them live their story out in the manner they would like to and it does not change that I still have a desire for them to participate with me (and with God in the evangelism case.) If we don’t have the desire to have people we love, join us in God’s story then I’d say we have a very big problem. Why wouldn’t you want someone to walk this path with you? There needs to be no goal. Just a desire to share what is your own life. Your adventures!

Needless to say, I felt Chris’ constructive criticisms of evangelism were right on. He does a good job of critiquing and not simply disregarding those forms of evangelism. People who consider these forms of evangelism valuable can simply heed the warnings and challenges associated with this type of evangelism without being attacked by yet another author.


Chris Folmsbee’s A New Kind of Youth Ministry

February 15, 2008

Yesterday I received in the mail Chris Folmsbee’s, A New Kind of Youth Ministry. As I was going to bed I set aside my Two Towers and reached for Folmsbee’s book. Now I’ve stopped reading youth ministry related material before I go to sleep for a reason…it gets me thinking. I absolutely loved the introduction to this book for two reasons: 1) Chris began to share his story which, had I known it years ago, would have resonated with me even then 2) I could still sleep after reading the intro.

Well that may sound like a shot but usually whant keeps me up is some technical explanation of youth ministry that does not depict any of my experiences in my 9 years of youth ministry. Of course it is possible to find some gems within these other books but often times I’m going, “God has done a GREAT work if that is what this book is about.”

This weekend I’m speaking at the Columbia Baptist Church High School Ski Retreat for my friend Chris‘ youth group. While I won’t be doing any skiing because of homework I hope to find some leisure time to work through Folmsbee’s book further. I’ve decided that I’ll try and blog through the book too. I’ve said I’d do this once before but put the book down two days after I posted saying I was going to do just that. This time it may be different. I love reading anything youth ministry related.

A short blurb about the intro: When I started in vocational youth ministry in 2000 at Memorial Baptist Church in Arlington, VA I was a new kind of Christian (a blue parakeet). I had just started participating in God’s story in an intentional way a year before and looked around and couldn’t for the life of me figure out the youth ministry scene. There was so much happening that was unsettling to me and made no sense at all. The four experiences I had as a teenager with youth ministry were only because of meaningful time an adult named Chris Meyers spent with me. That was it. That sent me on my journey of seeking after God.

Folmsbee takes us back a decade ago when he starts having these feelings that everything is not right in “Kansas” anymore. It is time to see if some adventurers in the story of God need to head a different direction. Chris shares a bit about being mentored by Tony Jones and the conversations they were having about postmodernism. In turn Chris writes that the church story he was participating in needed to be recultured.

This reculturing becomes strategic in the way he defines it (which is good in my opinion) but moves on to the more theological statement saying, “Reculturing is not a one-time deal. Instead, it is an ever-developing ethos of change that will allow us to effectively navigate the fluidity of our ministry contexts.” What I like about this is that it isn’t simply youth ministry related. It is whole Church related and individually related.

I’ve found that a good youth ministry book can speak to Church and “The Way” of Jesus as a whole, not just for youth ministry. Our lives should be and are continually transformed based on our context. The life of Christ frees us from becoming slaves to these changes but allows us to meld and participate and create amongst these times of change.

The last part of Chris’ introduction I’d like to share was his family’s sensitivity to where their path was diverging from his churches. He and his wife leave a church they fall in love with because they began to become a divisive force in the church. Now I’m sure this hurt a lot more than even came across in his writing (it was very hard for me to leave Memorial and that was on great terms) but I want to draw attention to his family response to the hurt.

It seems, though I could be wrong because I’ve only met Chris once, that he took a huge step in individual reculturation of individual life. Maybe I’m crazy but when you’re blazing a path on the leading of God, God wants you to have experience and memories that help make your story beautiful in the context in which your living. For Chris, he experienced reculturation in ministry to his core. He experienced it down to himself and his family. When I experience something at that level I seem to find peace in that same process if it ever happens again. It is for this reason that we need to read Chris’ book and help him lead in youth ministry while participating in his ministry.

Chris as a leader in the reculturation of youth ministry shares with his readers based on memory and experience. He has given of himself, beared a cross, been a sacrifice, and that is why his book will be valuable. It is a story many of us can and will participate in, not only as members of the Body of Christ, but as individuals. This simple story of his life qualifies him to be a leader along this path.

Often times I am thought of as a leader, and I believe I am, but many times I don’t feel like a leader in the reculturation process. I have done ministry the way I feel led to but have not had reculturation pinned to my soul. I can hold a lamp and lead that direction but I can’t understand the movement and texture of the path until I experience reculturation to my core. Chris knows the texture of the path and wants to share what it feels like. Let’s let him. His leading reminds me of a quote from Tolkiens Two Towers:

“Away now, Shadowfax! Run, greatheart, run as you have never run before! Now we are come to the lands where you were foaled, and every stone you know. Run now! Hope is in speed!”
- J.R.R. Tolkien in The Two Towers

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